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First day at Nursery - Top tips on how to deal with your Little One’s Anxiety

As much as we'd love to hold our little bundles of joy close forever, there comes a time when we need to let them take their first steps into the world, and nursery is often that first big step.

Now, it's only natural for your tiny tot to feel a tad anxious about this new adventure. But fret not! We are  here to share some top tips on how to ease those first-day jitters and help your precious one settle into nursery like a pro.

1. Start the Talk Early: Before the big day arrives, begin talking to your toddler about nursery. Use positive language and emphasize all the exciting activities they'll get to do and friends they'll make. Make it sound like a thrilling adventure.

2. Visit the Nursery Together: Take your little one for a few visits to the nursery before their first day. This will help familiarize them with the environment, teachers, and other children. Let them explore, ask questions, and get comfortable.

3. Familiar Faces: If there are any children from your neighborhood or your social circle attending the same nursery, try to arrange playdates. Seeing familiar faces on the first day can provide a sense of security.

4. Comfort Object: Many toddlers have a special comfort object, like a teddy bear or a blankie or a comforter like Jaspar The Dreamy Elephant. Let them bring it along to nursery for added comfort and reassurance.

5. Routine Practice: Start practicing the daily routine a few days before nursery begins. This helps your toddler adjust to the schedule and reduces any surprises on the first day.

6. Short Goodbyes: On the first day, keep your goodbye short and sweet. Reassure your toddler that you'll be back to pick them up and that nursery is a fun place. Prolonged goodbyes can make the separation harder.

7. Positive Goodbye Ritual: Create a special goodbye ritual, like a secret handshake or a kiss on both cheeks. This can make goodbyes less daunting and more enjoyable.

8. Trust Your Instincts: Sometimes, toddlers might cry when you leave, and that's okay. Trust the nursery staff to handle the situation. They're experienced in comforting little ones and will call you if needed.

9. Stay Calm: Your child can pick up on your emotions, so it's essential to stay calm and composed during drop-off. Even if you're feeling anxious, maintain a cheerful demeanor.

10. Be Punctual: Try to arrive on time for pick-up. Your toddler will feel more secure knowing you'll be there when you said you would. Punctuality builds trust.

11. Communicate with Teachers: Establish open communication with the nursery staff. Share any important information about your child's preferences, routines, or any concerns you might have. This ensures everyone is on the same page.

12. Celebrate Small Victories: Acknowledge and celebrate small achievements and milestones at nursery. Whether it's making a new friend or completing a craft, positive reinforcement can boost your toddler's confidence.

13. Listen and Validate: When your toddler talks about their day, listen attentively and validate their feelings. This creates a safe space for them to express themselves and builds trust.

14. Transition Comfort: Make transitions to and from nursery as comfortable as possible. Provide a cosy  car seat, a favorite snack, or a soothing song during the ride.

15. Patience is Key: Remember that every child is unique, and some might take longer to adjust than others. Be patient and supportive throughout the process, and don't be discouraged by setbacks.

So there you have it, dear parents and caregivers, a treasure trove of tips to help your little one navigate their first day at nursery with confidence and a smile. Remember, it's all part of their growth and development, and soon enough, they'll be skipping happily into the world of learning.